Hey buddy,
A friend of mine is redoing a Commander 26, he placed a new pod and installed twin 300's, I know its not a 30'er but if all the Commanders have the same quality you will be hard pressed to find a hand-laid boat in its class, correct me if I am wrong? At least you know what you have and have left to do to bring it to 100%, who's to say that getting a "new-to-you" boat will not present a whole new set of complications, perhaps greater than the ones you have now especially in this market, I am sure that lots of "lipstick" is being used at this unpresedentted time of sight/unseen purchases!
Covid is really creating an unpredictable crazed buying frenzy that could even get worst before, if at all, gets better. Believe you-me, I know its very had to restrain oneself, "we want what we want, when we want it", but if you can get through a season or two, as your mentioned, you may be further ahead and come out the other side saying, I think I like this boat now, I am glad I toughed it out
Also, as someone mentioned, if you can't possibly see yourself ever satisfied with this boat and content with it being what it is, then, i am sure, it will bother you to no-end as it has and well, you know its time to move on and unload it for something else either today or tomorrow it will have to be dealt with in one way or another.
Only you know your struggles and how much they affect YOU, we are all looking on the outside in and not fully aware of how troublesome the court proceedings and dealing with constant unsatisfactory workmanship issues were/are... All the best with whatever you decide!