I don't know who all the players are. What I do know is that if it's that hard to give someone my hard earned money I can guarantee that dealing with them on any issues after the sale will be a disaster. Every other dealership that I spoke with was patient with me, took the time to write up detailed quotes with part number even though they knew exactly what I was doing with those quotes and they also took the time to follow up and respond to email and telephone messages in a timely manner.
On a happy note. I pulled the trigger today. Dan at SG Power in Victoria gave me a smoking deal on a brand new left over 2017 Suzuki DF250 fly by wire. We will have a tried and true brand new motor with all the piece of mind of full warranty. I can't say enough good things about SG. I don't know how things will go after the sale but so far I am very impressed.
I never had any intentions of buying brand new and it makes me feel sick to my stomach to throw this kind of money at a 40 year old boat but it's done now. I sure hope there is a sport fishery for the next few years.
Thank you everyone here for all the tips, suggestions, and advice.