Well Jay I may as well get this going for you; and I guess saying "I wait to see what everyone else is doing" isn't going to cut it! LOL
Typically we all start trips by talking to others and see what they think, at least I am one of those people that will talk to others but I am also one that will look at multiple swell forecasts, wind reports and future reports; buoy reports and just plain and simple watch the forecasts and base my decisions on that, but the big one for me is the swell forecasts, they will tell you what is out there and what is coming, we all know the wind and environment Canada change all the time; but if the swells are falling you know that somewhere out there the winds also have come down, but for myself I will not head offshore when I know the swells are building, that tells me there is some wind out there somewhere and if the swells are rising the wind is still blowing and will travel with the front that is creating the the wind and swell. I have only done 4 trips for these addicting little critters, but I also commercially dove for urchins for a number of years and worked in some pretty bad conditions and know my limits. I have checked the weather every 2 hours through the night for 2 of our tuna trips and we were unsure what we were going to do as the weather was saying it would blow but swell forecasts were to come down through the day and when it was time to leave the dock we made the decision to go and they were the two calmest days I have ever seen offshore; if we had gotten out around the corner and it was rough we would have pulled the plug and returned to the beach. I know what I am comfortable in; in my boat as well as my fishing partners, if anyone of us is unsure or have a gut feeling we will not go. I think we all have our own sources we check religiously and people we talk with to see how they are reading the weather and conditions and know what we can handle or are even ready to handle, but I am sure if your buddy boat said they weren't going most of us would not go; unless we knew something we weren't telling; and frankly that isn't what this fishery is about and most if not all will help someone read the weather to the best of there ability; but it comes down to you and what you think.
Sculpin and I ran out the second to last day of the derby in september as we saw another boat heading out and we knew of two other boats out fishing but couldn't raise them for conditions, and it was nasty with the tide and short period swell and we called it approx 7 miles offshore and returned, both of us were not comfortable and we could just make out the warnings from the other boats offshore to return to the beach, we were gonna get pounded and burn alot of fuel which in turn would have shortened our day. For me I had fished in worse conditions in the past but I think I am wiser now; at least I hope.
I think plain and simple; if you don't read the forecast or believe in what EC is telling you and that is your go to for fishing; you won't get a good day to go tuna fishing; I am a week end warrior that plans weeks in advance and watches the forecasts daily and sometimes hourly the week before I go; it is a huge expense for all of us and we want to have a good experience for ourselves and crews and feel comfortable about what we are taking ourselves into, but have also spent the time to understand what we are looking at and how to read what we are looking at. I don't know about anyone else; but every time I read a thread and there is a weather web station someone says they are using; I bring it up and compare it too my others; if it is more accurate than another site I mark it or add it to my phone, which has 7 weather sites and 3 swell chart sites, all that I continually flip through during the season. Another good site I use is Marine traffic; if the commies aren't out there or the draggers are all in port when EC says variable winds; you know better, they maybe bigger boats but they will run and hide if it is going to be big for a couple of days or is going to come up!
Lots to look at and figure out; and if you have common sense it will prevail and you will be out fishing tuna or on the beach wondering what everyone else is doing, all else fails; read the tuna adventure thread and see what everyone is doing and then look at the weather and see how they are reading it and ask why or how they are seeing it differently than you; as alot of us have done and will continue to do; I don't think anyone on here would send anyone out into bad weather, no matter how much they disliked them! Hopefully!!!!