You hit the nail on the head there. I appreciate that we all share in this disfunction in spite of our partners hate of how much time we spend on it. Those that get it just get it. Love you all, happy new year.Hope everyone has a great 2021 Happy New Year! 2020 saw us get our first boat and it has brought us so much joy and happiness (a few headaches), also happy to have joined this forums weird dysfunctional family. Lots of knowledge and entertainment, and even though views differ were richer together then alone.