Update on my friend's F150, if anyone cares. I got it apart and found the exhaust guide was eaten out along the port passage way. bonus is no damage to the engine block so it is preserved. Chewed at the mating surface with the oil pan a little but not enough to bother replacing it. The part was expensive at 800$ but considering the 18k$ price tag of a new motor it's not too bad. Decided to change the oil pump for 500$ since we had the block off, and a few gaskets and the total is just shy of 2k$ in parts. motor is older but only has 650 hours, lots of life left in it. Definitely not worth throwing it away.
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