Sorry to hear about your friend. Every year there are lives lost to the ocean and it always hits home for those that work or just spend time on the water recreationally. Being out on the water almost daily through the late spring and summer, I couldn't count how many times i've seen people out on the water in conditions they shouldn't be out in. Not saying that was the situation in this case, as we dont know the details but just saying. Ive seen guys out in 14' tin boats in 3' plus chop with white caps in the straight. Guys going out in their 16 and 17' double eagles and hourstons in 15 plus knot winds with 3-4' white caps. It always astonishes me when I see people launching there small boats at the launch when its 15-20 kn winds out. I'll ask if they know the forecast or have looked at the current conditions and most of the time its a no. Ive told countless people over the years at the boat launch the conditions and some do heed my warning and decide to not launch, but most just shrug it off like I dont know what im talking about. Most of the time i'll see them come back to the launch after 15 minutes. Ive honestly given up on trying to educate people on what the conditions are like because as i said most people either don't believe me or don't think their boat will be suseptible to 3-5' white caps. Im honestly surprised there isnt more drownings or capsizing events with what i see regularly. I assume its either inexperience or just ive done this so many times and been fine, why would this be any different. And maybe 99% of the time it will be fine but its the 1% where you may take a wave the wrong way, get hit by a wake then a wave, or lean to far over the side as a wave hits your beam. Stuff happens so fast and I dont think people truly understand how quick things can happen. I love fishing and getting people to experience what we may take for granted out here on the coast, but no fish is worth your life. Even though Im loosing money if I cancel trips because of the weather, Ive still got a limit of knots that if its over im not going, doesnt matter how dissapointed clients may be. Ive also learned the hard way that when your out and the conditions are getting worse and worse, dont wait till the last moment, start pulling up your gear and heading in before it gets to the oh **** this is pretty bad moment. By then it may be too late. Ive seen how fast the conditions can change and go from 3-4' to 5-6' plus in no time. Again
@Chasin' Dreams sorry for your loss, I hope this post wasnt too much to put on this thread, if so let me know and ill take it down.